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Friday, March 15, 2013

My Personal Research Journey


For my research, I have chosen the general topic of "shyness".  My subtopic will be the aspects of resilience in shy children.  This is an area I can relate to very closely.  I was an extremely very bashful child until I was out of high school.  I felt very socially inadequate.  I always felt like I missed out on so much.  Looking back, it was not as bad as I thought at the time.  Academically, I struggled through elementary school.  However, I started doing much better throughout junior high and high school.  During those years, I came out of my shell slightly.  I often wonder how my childhood might have been if I had not been so shy.  I would like to research what strategies might help shy children in my classroom.  Are their opportunities for educators and parents to help children become more confident and build their self-esteem?  I remember specific teachers that helped me feel important and capable of being successful.  I hope to be one of those teachers in a child's life.  In addition, my little girl has been blessed with confidence and self-esteem.  She is smart, happy, and out-going. I hope through my experiences I have been able to instill these qualities in my daughter.  In addition, she has been blessed with awesome teachers and family support.  I look forward to finding answers to these questions.  There is so much research on this topic.  It should be an interesting journey to see what has been researched.  I would also love to hear about stories on this topic from others.  I look forward to working with each of you and learning more about this topic.      

4 comments:

  1. Great topic Cindy!

    I know this journey will take you far beyond where you think you will go. Shyness can really affect the life of a child. This topic has implications for psychological, academic and social development. I cant wait to hear more about it.

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    1. Hi Nadia,

      Thank you so much for your input. I hope to do this topic justice.

      Cindy

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  2. Cindy,
    I too was very shy when I was in elementary school. One of the factors to this was that I was very sheltered as a child. My mother was a stay at home parent and my friends were my cousins and maybe a few children of my mother's friends. I hope that you are able to gain much knowledge on this topic and I know that you are going to be an inspiration to someone else that may have the same story.

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    1. Hi Cheri,

      That sounds so much like my childhood. I was home with my mom until entering kindergarten. It was a wonderful opportunity; however, I was not prepared to be around others. Due to a divorce, my daughter had to enter preschool at 2 years old. She was so ready and has done so well. I hope to learn so much more so my kiddos don't go through what I did being so shy. Thanks for your input.

      Cindy

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